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Why Not A Puppy?
By: Gary Wynn Kelly
We get many calls from people wanting to adopt dogs
from CCNDR. One of the most common calls I get is the one that begins
with, "Do you have any puppies?"
I usually explain that we are a non-profit, tax exempt
rescue organization, and only rarely get puppies. I may ask why the caller
wants a puppy. I have done this enough to guess the answer most often
given by the next caller when I ask yet again--"Why do you want a
puppy?"
The most common answer is that the caller wants the
children to grow up with a puppy, and the kids to have the experience
of watching a puppy grow and develop. When asked about the ages of the
children, the response most often is that the children are under the age
of 6, and the caller wants a puppy to "bond with the children".
The consistency of the responses has motivated me to
write about this issue. Too often the caller will hang up before discussing
the topic further, and I hope that some of those persons will read this,
or hear from those persons who do, and perhaps listen carefully.
It is true that we do not usually get literal puppies
in rescue. Fewer than 1 in 10 dogs can fairly be called a puppy. We do
get many young dogs, as our average dog is between the ages of 1 and 3.
Since northern dogs do not mature until age 3, a 1-2 year old dog is young
indeed!
Those puppies we do get are mostly 4-6 month old pups.
Sometimes, we do get a 9 to 12 week old puppy, but this happens no more
often than
twice a year typically. Some other rescue groups do receive more
puppies, but these are mostly of a mixed parentage.
There are good reasons for this. An individual who gets
a puppy may sometimes find that it is beyond the family resources to actually
manage and raise that puppy. Perhaps the person bought the pup at a pet
store, which most often will *not* take the pup back, or possibly from
a "breeder". I put "breeder" in quotes because a breeder
who will not accept a dog back is running a business difficult to distinguish
from that of a puppy mill. All truly reputable breeders of integrity will
require a contract of sale, in which they specify that they must be given
the option first of buying the pup back at no more than the purchase price.
No breeder who loves the dogs they breed could stand to think of a dog
from their breeding being on the street, or in a shelter.
The other source of puppies to rescue is that from the
unfortunate young bitch who comes into rescue pregnant, or who has just
had puppies. Mostly these pups are the result of the poor management of
the mother, and her becoming pregnant by whatever male dogs got to her
when she was available.
Most people do not realize that the bitch in heat ovulates
over several days. Thus, a bitch may conceive a litter that has 2 or more
fathers to the pups. Perhaps male #1 impregnated the bitch on the first
or second day of her heat, and successfully fertilized 2 or 3 eggs. On
day 3 or 4, another male, #2, manages to successfully fertilize the newly
ovulated eggs, to be the father of those pups. This can be repeated possibly
a third time, resulting in 3 males fathering pups in the same litter with
the same mother.
It can be quite difficult after the fact, to guess at
the parentage of a pup or young dog. One knows who the mother is, if she
is still with the pup, but otherwise, it is a best guess. At CCNDR, we
do our best to accept those dogs with known northern characteristics into
rescue, and avoid those where we may not be qualified or able to provide
either accurate or helpful advice on socialization, training, or later
handling.
It is our practice at CCNDR, to not place a young pup
with a family who has not already successfully raised a pup. Generally
we consider the ideal candidate for a pup to be a responsible person who
has considerable dog experience, and a successful track record at raising,
socializing, and training high energy and difficult dogs. We prefer that
the person already own another dog that can act as mentor to a new pup.
California law allows a breeder to sell pups at 8 weeks.
If a breeder is selling dogs at less than 8 weeks, and allowing those
dogs to leave the mother; it is a violation of California law, and should
be reported.
The truth is that 8 weeks is still far too early for
a pup to leave its mother. The reason is that while the pup is weened,
it still requires weeks of careful instruction from its mother or an "auntie".
This is
*especially* important when the dog is a northern breed puppy. Anyone
taking even an 8 week old puppy into a home, without another willing and
capable dog to mentor that pup is running the risk of creating a disaster.
At 8 weeks puppies are learning to use their teeth,
and northern pups are also often learning to use their claws--for important
tasks like digging, scratching, and pulling things apart. If these activities
are not mentored successfully, the pup will not learn to *inhibit* the
degree to which it engages in these activities. The result can be a dog
that is a destructive chewer, digger, or both.
The puppy goes through enormous emotional development
during these early weeks, just as human children do in their early years.
If the puppy is with one of its own kind, the result can be a stable and
emotionally mature dog. The resulting young dog, and later mature dog,
can be a model of poise, focus, and a socially aware canine. Conversely,
if this emotional support is lacking, the result is too often a hyper
young dog that has difficulty being trained, and lacks in all socially
appropriate behaviors.
Perhaps this sounds all too much like that dog that
your
friend/neighbor/relative had back when . . . Too often people feel it
was
the fault of the owner, and feel that they could do it better if it was
only their pup. The truth is, the deck is already stacked against the
puppy when it was taken from the pack at too early an age for complete
pack socialization, and forced to live among alien humans, who do not
make the best mentors in what a dog should know when learning to live
among humans. The best teachers for that are dogs who have already demonstrated
considerable success in doing so.
The majority of the young dogs we see in rescue are
the result of a scenario not very different from what was just outlined.
Some person or family got "a puppy for the kids", and got it
maybe at 8 weeks, and possibly tried to raise it in isolation to its kind
with disastrous results. Possibly the family did not know that most northern
dogs physically grow up quite quickly. They are generally full grown in
stature by 8 or 9 months. Many people are shocked when they come to me
to adopt a dog, and find that a 12-15 month old dog is not going to grow
any larger.
These northern dogs are aliens to us--they do not grow
and develop like children. They grow and develop like dogs. This should
not be a surprise, but it seems to be to many people.
What does this mean? At 4-6 months, these pups lose
their puppy teeth. Those sharp little razors are now replaced with bright
new teeth that apparently tingle and motivate the dog to chew on almost
anything, just to relieve the urge. Unless their has been very good mentoring
before this time, the pup will tend to bite too hard, and chew up many
items the owner would prefer to have unchewed.
Even when a puppy is acquired at 8 weeks, it will only
be small a very short time. By 8 months, the cutest puppy is nearly at
full adult size.
In 6 short months, the puppy has grown from puppy to adolescent dog size.
What child under 6 will ever remember this 6 month period later with
any clarity or appreciation?
I have witnessed too many children who became traumatized
to dogs during the puppy to adult transition. The pups have no manners,
and children develop fears as quickly as they learn to appreciate a dog.
It is no kindness to young children to inflict a rude and challenging
puppy on them, and no kindness to the puppy to have children who are not
yet responsible, to attempt to handle a puppy with whom they may well
be displeased.
Many other problems can result from a pup growing up
in an environment of aliens, with no proper mentor. Dogs may become food
aggressive, develop severe separation anxiety, or become escape artists.
A strong pack provides the young northern pup or dog with a sense of security,
and hours of instruction in how to use those teeth and claws properly,
as well as diversions for that high intelligence with which each dog comes
well endowed.
Humans can be enormously egotistical. One would be hard
put to find human parents willing to let primates raise their baby, but
nearly all those parents believe themselves fully capable of raising an
8 week old pup to be a well behaved dog at maturity. They are so confident
of their own ability, that they bet hundreds of dollars on it when they
buy a puppy from a pet store.
Mostly, what happens is that the pup grows up far faster
than the new human parents can believe it will. In the first 2 months
the pup more than doubles in size and weight. It starts getting adult
teeth, and it will again nearly double in size by 6 months of age. In
4 short months, the pup has gone from a dog one could comfortably hold
in one hand or arm, to a dog nearly 80% of its adult size. During those
4 months, the human parents just found that with work, children's activities,
and family commitments, the dog just did not get enough training. But,
it is still young, and they resolve that in the next 6 months, they will
get all that training done they intended to do.
Most people remember that old cliche about one year
in a child's life being 7 years in a dog's life. Few ever try to scale
that to a day, a week, or a month. Each day that one misses training and
handling a puppy is a week in that puppy's life--a week gone forever.
Each month is 7 months of lost time--almost an entire school year, and
one in which the puppy failed to learn critical skills when it was most
important to know them.
In the years that CCNDR has been operating, we average
40-50 dogs in rescue each year. That is nearly one dog a week that came
from a family that failed to fulfill their good intentions to raise a
northern dog to be a good citizen in the community. Yes, there are exceptions--about
10% each year come to us trained, and well socialized for other reasons
than that the family failed. Sometimes these dogs came as the result of
a medical misfortune, or relocation of the family and an inability to
take the dog along.
This means that approximately 90% of the dogs we see
in rescue are young dogs--between the ages of 1 and 3 mostly, that need
considerable training and socialization before they can be reasonably
placed in good homes. I sometimes call these "heathen dogs".
I take these dogs and put them through a rigorous socialization
and training routine. Each dog has to learn to live in a well socialized
pack run by a mature alpha female, our Akamai. We sometimes call this
boot camp. I take each dog out every day for training until it has basic
obedience and leash skills. Each dog is crate trained, and each gets regular
grooming so it can be handled for brushing by a new owner.
During this time, the dog is spay/neutered, and receives
all of its necessary vaccinations. We come to understand it as an individual
dog, and we test it in a wide variety of community situations to identify
and work through potential problems to living in urban neighborhoods.
By the time a dog is "adoption ready", we know what kind of
family in
which it will thrive, and what limitations to placement remain, if any.
We come to know its individual personality, and we have identified many
of the dog's preferences and dislikes.
When a family goes to buy a puppy, very little is known
of that pup's personality, as it has not yet matured enough to evidence
those characteristics it will have later. The family will make decisions
that will help mould the pup, but not necessarily through understanding
nor with the assistance of skilled mentors who do know what the pup needs.
The result can be a dog with a personality quite different
from that the family imagined the dog should/would have. I have seen this
at the back end--when the family calls CCNDR, and wishes to know if we
can take the dog, because with the new baby and all, they just cannot
handle it. It has so much more energy than they imagined, and the children
no longer can play with it, as it is too rough, and too strong. They have
tried, and spent a lot of money on this dog. They took it to 8 lessons
in obedience, and those were 45 minute lessons, costing $XXX.
Nature clearly intended the northern dog to live in
a pack. The purpose and point of a pack is that it takes a pack to raise
a pup successfully--sort of the northern dog equivalent of "It Takes
a Whole Village . . . ".
That pack works hard, and that pack works full time--full
time as working with the pup for every waking moment during those critical
months when time flies, and puppies grow so terribly fast. Once Mom has
finished nursing the pup, there are "aunties" to take over,
and they play and teach puppies with structured games, and often harsh
discipline. When the pup is a little older, the males take up instruction,
and then the games do get rough. But the pup grows to be gentle, as it
learns what adult teeth and adult size means, and how to control its assets.
A gifted martial arts instructor could not teach a youngster so well as
nearly any well bred and nurtured dog teaches puppies.
Northern dogs *are* pack dogs. That is their beauty
and their curse.
Given time to mature properly with pack instruction, as Nature intended
they should, these dogs become some of the most amazing companions a family
will ever know. Raised outside of a healthy pack, they can become willful,
unresponsive, frustrating, and more difficult to manage than any owner
imagined a dog could be. Some unfortunate cases become biters, fence jumpers,
destructive chewers, or simply unable to respond any longer to humans
in whom they have lost faith. Even the gifted pack at CCNDR has its limitations.
When we see those, we leave them to die at the shelters, or decline to
accept them as owner surrendered dogs.
As for bonding . . . A pack dog has been gifted with
a genetic endowment that ensures each and every dog has the ability to
bond with a pack, and become a good member of that pack. This mechanism
is so strong that we can often take an extremely and wayward dog, and
have our pack bring it around to becoming one of the happiest and well
adjusted dogs in the community. Humans should have such incredible mechanisms
for achieving mental health even when they came from an environment unfavorable
for such a balance. Thus, the northern dogs we have placed at CCNDR were
able to achieve a strong bond with a new owner--not always the first owner,
but the right owner. I have had dog fail with one owner, to become the
outstanding good citizen and companion of another. Most of our adopting
families claim that a northern dog adopted as an adult, makes a better
family companion than any dog they ever owned. We say that a rescued dog
never takes a good home for granted, and is so intelligent that it knows
how to keep the good "pack" it now has.
If you are a gifted person with considerable time and
talent, and have the resources to raise a northern dog pup because you
do know and realize the responsibility in doing so, please *do* raise
another puppy or two! We want the next generation to enjoy these dogs
as thoroughly as each of us has who owns a pack today. Contribute your
time and talent to ensure that smiles will break out on the faces of hundreds
of people who will come to know your mature good canine citizen tomorrow.
If you have limited time, knowledge, resources,
and face many other responsibilities in living in a tough world, please
come to us, and adopt a mature dog first--one that can give you the gift
of companionship in a way you never knew was possible, and from whom you
may, if you are humble and perceptive enough, come to know a beauty and
spirit that will transcend your dreams, and prepare you so that one day,
possibly one day, you can help to raise a puppy for your grandchildren.
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